If you married for love, you can divorce for love
My story begins more than 30 years ago, as a child living in a home with parents who had stopped loving each other. Yet, they decided to "do the right thing" which, they mistakenly understood, was staying together for the kids. They lived under the same roof for over ten years, exchanging very few remarks until my Dad had enough and left. That is when I made a pact with myself that if I ever stopped loving my husband, I would accept it and move towards a new contract that would honor our loving past together and signal a new relationship without the marital commitment.
When I found myself in the middle of the storm that comes with the ending of a 15 year marriage I reminded myself of that promise and that our children would not suffer the way my siblings and I did. I wish I knew then what I know now about how to deal with divorce in a less emotional and more efficient manner but the most important lesson I got for you is that divorce does not have to be as hard as we have been told. I want to help you overcome your fears, find clarity on how to move forward, answer the questions that keep you up at night and more importantly hold your hand and give you professional coaching while you walk through this transition.
My ultimate purpose is to shift society from the view that divorce is a failure to one that acknowledges that most relationships end and that there is a way to transition to a new agreement without the drama. I want to remove the negative associations of divorce with "shattered childhoods", "broken homes" and 'financial struggles". I want to remove one of the most dangerous aspects of a divorce and that is the lack of appropriate support which results in making dreadful decisions with permanent negative consequences for your life and your children’s future. It is not enough to get support from well-intentioned friends and family but you need coaching from someone who has been there, understands what you are going through and has helped many to regain control of their divorce. Not everybody experiences rejection, criticisms, judgments and isolation but for those who do, it makes the process considerably more challenging and we are here to make sure that nobody has to do this alone.
Check our different offerings with options to fit all income levels and if you need help figuring out your next step, do not hesitate to contact us. Mucho Love, Olga